A shameful accusation and ban
In gratitude for a life-saving operation that saved my dad’s life and gave him an extra 30 years, and later operations that improved the quality of his life, I started giving blood soon after I turned 18. In my ’30s, in response to the IMPORTED CONTAMINATED BLOOD SCANDAL, I upped my game and for some years donated plasma and platelets monthly. At about 50 I took a long break, I’d had enough, but a few years ago they asked me, now an OAP, to start donating blood again. I was a bit surprised but happy to do that.
In early 2020, after a trip to Thailand, I was wrongly turned away because some areas carried extra risk but, as it turned out when I checked, not them, that did not apply to where I’d been, so I was able to donate a week later. But they had let me make a wasted trip, no skin off their nose. During Covid, when my local centre was unavailable, I did a 60-mile round trip to another centre, at my own expense of course.
In October 2021 I had a mild eye infection, Specsavers (working for the NHS) checked my eye and advised me to buy over-the-counter drops to clear it. I did that and thought nothing of it. A few days later, as I went to give blood, I ticked the relevant box to say what had happened. That meant I had to discuss it with a nurse.
In her office she told me that because of that minor treatment I couldn’t donate. Her attitude was awful, she displayed zero empathy for my wasted trip, again, and just couldn’t care less. As the penny dropped I felt angry. I stood up, said nothing, did nothing, I simply left her office and slammed the exit door to the unit, not her office, as I left. I was fuming for the rest of the day.
To make matters worse I had never (ever) been sent the health-check questionnaire in advance, as should have happened, due to a clerical error on their part.
I later learnt that the nurse said I was ‘aggressive’, at which I took offence. There were various lengthy phone calls and email exchanges seeking to resolve this matter, but I eventually made it clear that I would not resume donations unless the aggression accusation was withdrawn. Their response was to ban me!
I did make a complaint to the relevant ombudsman service and my contact there was very understanding. She told me that they couldn’t pursue my case due to their enormous workload. But what she did tell me was that based on what I told them, they did NOT consider my behaviour to have been aggressive and thought I was NOT at fault.
In my view, the nurse made a shameful baseless accusation, and the blood transfusion service, unsurprisingly, closed ranks and chose to back her not me. I find their ungrateful contemptuous response truly staggering, a real kick in the teeth. They want your blood but you are not allowed to display human emotions when provoked.
What Putin is doing in Ukraine is aggression, I was just angry at their incompetence and bad attitude.
30 lipca 2022
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