Absolutely devastating wedding experience
Our wedding day, which should have been one of the happiest days of our lives, was left overshadowed by fear, distress, and disappointment.
The most shocking moment was when the disco ball fell from the ceiling and landed dangerously close to a three-year-old child. It happened moments before they were about to go and eat. We had to react instantly and grab them to prevent what could have been a horrific accident.
What made the situation worse was the response afterwards. Staff appeared aware that something had gone wrong, but we were told the disco ball had been secured correctly. From what we could see, it had been held up with four corners using extremely thin, almost invisible lines that guests could not see. This created not only a risk of the fixture falling, but also a potential trip hazard for guests.
The impact this had on everyone was huge. Guests, including families with children aged between 3 and 9, were left shaken and uncomfortable. Some people chose to leave shortly after because they no longer felt at ease. The mood of the entire day changed from celebration to worry.
As the bride and groom, we were left trying to process a frightening situation on what should have been a once-in-a-lifetime memory. We both have ADHD and autism, and one of us also has EUPD, which made the emotional impact of the day’s events even more overwhelming.
The service overall also fell far below expectations. With fewer than 40 guests attending, the catering and organisation felt completely unsuitable, as though the event had been prepared for a much larger group rather than the intimate wedding we had planned.
We trusted this venue with one of the most important days of our lives. Instead, we were left with distressing memories, upset guests, and a feeling that our safety and experience were not given the care and attention they deserved.
We hope this review encourages the venue to seriously look at their safety procedures, communication, and event standards so that another couple and their families do not experience the same disappointment.








